How To Really Change Your Life

May 18, 2026
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We all have areas in our lives where we know we need to change, but why is it so hard to actually become different? We often find ourselves stuck in the same destructive patterns because we don’t want to pay the cost of real transformation. In this message from Deuteronomy 10, we explore the spiritual reality of stubbornness, the necessity of aligning our willpower with our faith, and how Jesus has the power to surgically remove our old, fleshly nature so we can step into a truly different, life-giving version of ourselves.

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00:00 – The Pain of Being Different
03:58 – The Challenge of Changing Yourself
06:08 – Circumcising the Foreskin of Your Heart
10:11 – The Danger of Stubbornness
15:41 – The Cost of True Change
18:49 – Why Becoming Different is Actually Good
30:12 – Why Your Willpower Isn’t Enough
34:25 – How Faith and Willpower Work Together
39:00 – The Call to Be “Built Different”